Wow this is the most validating email I've ever received!
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Hi Alice,
I'm a non-Autistic ADHDer with an Autistic family. I'm also a neuropsychologist who spends most of my time teaching other healthcare professionals how to recognize the less obvious presentations of autism. I've written two books on this topic and do a lot of talks and podcasts. Somehow I came across your research on self-identification and I'm really impressed. I just wanted to reach out to tell you that. You have done a remarkable job with a complicated topic!
@alice this looks like both an interesting read and potentially relevant to me. I will read it later when I have time but I’ll go ahead and leave a preemptive thank you for putting in the time and effort to write this
@alice I just found out that I was the link - I sent one of your posts to dear spouse, who sent it on to (email writer). I'm glad to have connected you!