2016? You mean the year when democrats couldn't get their shit together and rally behind their nominee to beat Trump even though it was obvious how horrible he would be?
I also remember 2020, the year when Biden, y'know, beat Trump.
"I know for a fact that Joe Biden gave each and every missile a little kiss on its warhead, and he refuses to share his secret solution to the decades-long Israel/Palestine conflict that will stop all the fighting without costing the US a critical ally."
Hey, here’s a thought: spend a couple minutes thinking about why people are upset. Until you’ve done that, take your own advice and shut the fuck up.
Plenty of democrats are concerned about his capacity and are saying there should be another nominee. Not random people, members of congress. If they’re not settled on Biden maybe you should be the one shutting the fuck up.
Also, dude could easily keel over any day between now and November. If he was a healthy 60-something year old people might be less concerned. But a candidate who has a decent chance of dying before the election is a bad candidate.
Cutting down the tree that hasn't completely fallen off the trunk (the one that hit the neighbors' house) and getting rid of all the others since they were way too heavy for us to lift and our chainsaw is electric, which doesn't help when the power is out.
Nah, fucking do better. We have 330m people and this is the best you got? Get fucked. Throw the whole fucking system in the trash. I'm talking about that system that lets Trump get away with shit and puts me in jail and convicts me for trying to escape a guy who attacked me on the road. There ain't shit any of you "good guys" have going on that fucking matters.
No I think they're just old-fashioned. My parents waited a while to have kids; they're in their 60s/70s now, so a bit older than most people are probably imagining. I don't think they actually believe a man and a woman can really be friends, so it's like they're trying to "call it" in a way.
I definitely wouldn't trade it for parents who didn't give a damn about what I was doing, at any rate. I guess I just wish they were a little more interested in what I'm doing and less interested in who I'm with is all.
Thanks for the comment/perspective. Not sure what's up with the downvotes on yours in particular.
Next time they say something like this, respond with something like "if I'm dating someone, I'll let you know. If you continue to assume things about my friends, or comment on their appearance, I'm going to stop sending you pictures."
If you introduce your next girlfriend to them and they don't seem to care, have an explicit sit-down conversation about it. Tell them how it makes you feel, point out the inconsistency, and tell them you're going to stop introducing them if their behavior doesn't change
I've tried it and I can't seem to phrase it politely enough that it doesn't upset them (and boy can they get upset) but also firmly enough for them to actually listen. Kinda think I'm gonna try blurring my friends' faces so they can't tell me how beautiful they are anymore.
Dude, sorry about your parents. I see 3 options here...go no contact, assert boundaries that condition contact on their behavior, or do nothing and let them keep acting like this. There may be other options I don't see, but it's important to recognize they're probably going to act like this for the rest of your life, so it'll be best to be intentional about how you interact with them. They sound like the kind of people who'd try to interfere/fuck up your relationships if they don't like who you're with, and it sounds like they're going to be really good at finding fault. A therapist could help you unpack all their bullshit and figure out how best to communicate with them
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