"Do you think fighting can be part of a healthy relationship?"
My wife and I rarely fight, we've maybe had two or three in our entire relationship, and they weren't yelling matches We just got upset and patched things up relatively quickly. I don't think I could be with someone who thinks raising their voice at another person is okay, and surely not if they think it can be healthy. And hard "hell no" to any violence.
I watched my sister and her fiance call each other stupid and mentally deficient, purely as jokes, and it made me feel bad for them... even though they have a great relationship and say shit like that to each other as a joke.
But that's not fighting and some people have that sense of humor. Feel bad for them if they are unhappy, but if they are happy, why not be happy for them?
I am, it just feels like to me that, on some level, they are truly saying what they think in the same way that jokes have a small nugget of truth to them. Again, perhaps I'm being too sensitive.
"Are you interested in any mutual sexual activities (not limited to regular sex)?"
The problem is that I am hoping for a "no"...
Not quite something I'd want. Quite the opposite I'd say. As I said, I am fucked up. But nope, nope... I don't like that idea.
I don't know what to do about it.
Either way, valid for all questions by me, I'd like to include a note that not all (if any) questions need an answer. I am terrible at wording stuff, and something cannot be easily answered either.
(I am assuming this is done on paper or electronically. Otherwise it's most likely I'd just chicken out right away.)
I was once in an open relationship. It was worst experience of my life. She'd mention her old boyfriend like he was still current, we had weird codewords if one of us was interested in someone else, and any talk of future plans was just this large void. Never again.
I voted remain, but I made a big fuss that the leave camp had a valid point about the workers rights in this country, with the expectation that "remain" would be the outcome still. Yes, I'm a shyster.
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He's a racist ego-maniac, but he is funny at times and I like his show about tractors. People are a spectrum.
I did when I was a teen. Now I find them whiney, though I do get nostalgic for that 90s sound sometimes. Ocean Colour Scene, Verve, Manics, etc.