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Unsure of the future with my current fiance.

So I'm not sure if I can or should continue my relationship with my fiance or try to fix things. We've been together for two years now. When we first started dating they said that they were working on finishing their masters degree but they have not done so. They also said they'd be going back to work after they finished their...

zone OP ,

Cry and make excuses.

zone OP ,

They do have ADHD and is medicated. I know it can be an impediment and try to support them. I'm not sure how much longer I can be OK with little to no progress.

zone OP ,

After kids are in school. They're expecting full support during the whole first years of kids.

zone OP ,

I think that's how my family feels as well.

zone OP ,

Not currently. But as soon as we get married.

zone OP ,

Yeah, that's what it's looking like they want.

zone OP ,

Not at first. This is fairly recent. She already gets snippy about me not helping that much around the house. I do help but I'm not taking on half of the work.

zone OP ,

Oh I agree. I struggle with depression and anxiety myself. But, I try really hard to keep my shit together, even when I feel terrible. I don't feel like she's putting in the same effort.

zone OP ,

Thank you :)

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