Oh I see that once again the solution to the problems of social spaces is to just not extend any grace to transfeminine people, ever. Especially when we form a group.
No, trans people and even transfemmes aren't immune from engaging in this.
Everyone seems to have this need for instant results, but no one is willing to pay moderators for 24/7 oncall staffing
They always want visible results. Preferably visible punitive results. Everyone wants to witness the auto-da-fé
Give staff time to respond to things, trust there to be remedies you don't see, extend them grace under stress and duress, and give them space to learn
Yes, when there is harm it needs to be rectified, but for those who push these points it will never be fast enough
@hrefna I'm watching Spanish 8 part mini-series on Teresa of Avila right now
I bet you are wondering* what that, she or the princess of Eboli has to do with anything
Well, among other things, she had to go up in front of the Inquisition, thanks to the princess.
And avoided an autoduffet (haha auto da Fe)
*As was I for a minute, I'm in my middle of the night wake and bake and sleep You had to go back to the OP to see, because of the new compose window on .social