@GottaLaff ...I wouldn't say 'smart'... lucky to put 2 n 2 together just because all of a sudden I had so many puzzle pieces around me... and my mind just put it together and I freaked... I knew I was going to need time to make it happen and circumstances in my life just aligned. I also come from a family where my grandfather was deported -on foot- to what was at the time Oriental Prussia and the stories I was raised on were enough that I knew what was coming. Dumb luck. You, otoh, were smart.