Arwen is doing her thing, after I told her off for doing a thing that I didn't agree upon (which she knew but still tried)... But now she's back to better behavior. 😊
I'm busy in my mind! The #AuDHD is very wild with all the things I need to do, with all the things I hope to get done... Worries, doubts, and some anxiety are still keeping my head fueled.
I wish I could say that I know I can do it. But some things I probably can't do... Some things will probably need help and I already feel like I've asked for so much help... And of course I feel bummed because I kinda want to be successful by myself... If that makes sense 🤔...
I still have some time to work on the big chores. But I also need to do other things, besides those, to prepare the apartment for the big move in ten days... The fridge needs to be emptied and cleaned, the shower cabin needs to be taken off the walls... Some lights need to be taken off as well... So I'll have to devide the time and work. And if course I do hope my body will be able to keep up...
I'll definitely try to keep you posted! I'll also try to keep myself posted on your toots as well... 😊
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Fankoos for joining us on this journey! Fankoos for supporting us! It means so much!!!
@PixysJourney@weirdfolks take care and ask for help when needed. Don't want you to have an accident and hurt yourself. huggles remember we are here if you need us. 🫂
@skyfire747
Fankoos 🫶🏻 and... I did! 😁
Getting some help on Friday and Saturday. 😊
And Fankoos 🫶🏻 again! I really appreciate the support 💜 🤗 @weirdfolks
@PixysJourney@weirdfolks it's hard to ask for help. However, to make sure you don't burn out, it's better to ask for it. You don't want to burn out before the needed stuff is done, especially clearing out the apartment coz that's on a timeframe.
Not everything has to be done alone, just by you. I'm sure your RL friends are just as excited as your phone friends are for you to have this. We would all pitch in if we could & were closer. Take any help, wherever you can get it ❤️
@Cbfoley
Owww it's very hard! I always feel guilty... 😔 I always think they could spend their time better than doing stuff for me... (I know... Weird me...).
I definitely don't wanna burn out. Just wish my body was in a better shape (then I could maybe work some, and have less pain... If only... 😔).
Fankoos 🫶🏻 yeah I talked to my walkies friend and she asked if she could help. So I explained what needed to be done and now she'll help me. She already felt guilty for not helping, as I helped her last year with her move. Although she's borrowing me the money for the van rental! So that's a BIG help for sure! 😁
So yes! I took the offer and I try not to feel guilty about it. 😊 @weirdfolks
@PixysJourney@weirdfolks Thing about setting yourself goals is that they must be achievable , there in nothing , anywhere that says you must move house on your own sweetie !
Onwards & upwards you (& your helpers! ) have got this !! 💪 🤗🥰
@MAJ1
I know... But my best friends who coupe help me live 90 minutes away... So they can't just "come over" for a while to help...
I'm just bummed that I need to do double the work, as it's hard... 😔
@AliHea
Fankoos 🫶🏻 🤗
I know it's hard to ask! Especially as my bestest friends live about 90 minutes away from me... 😔
But I'll see what I can do by myself. And when I see my friends on the 13th for the big move, I can show them what I can't do and ask for their help. There won't be time for it during the moving weekend, but maybe some have some experience and I can bribe them to come visit me again (and bring old clothes for painting 😂).
Fankoos 🫶🏻 again! I'll definitely do my best 😉 @weirdfolks