Are there any guides to living?

Hello,

I was wondering if there exists any objective, high-quality guides to doing various human-stuff like showering, properly eating, integration in society, basically anything that can be thought as interacting with the real world.

Maybe there's a wiki for such stuff? A weird request, for sure, but I am wondering if there's an overall better way to do common stuff.

I've found the worst case scenario handbook to be very useful, but more material is always better.

Eheran ,

Sounds Like something GPT is really good at.

qantravon ,

No, GPT will make things up. It is absolutely not a good source for factual information or advice.

Eheran ,

So? People make shit up all the time. Unlike people, you can ask GPT multiple times and even ask for specific Google terms to check the info.

Detheroth ,

You can't ask a person the same question multiple times? Someone better tell my 3 year old.

When was the last time you asked someone "What should I Google to find 'x'"? If someone asked me for knowledge and then asked how to find more info on it I'd be happy to show them what to search, and I suspect most people with an interest in anything would do the same. Weirdly, people like sharing things. It's how we managed to survive this long.

magnetosphere ,
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Many people would recommend the Bible. A lot of that shit will get you arrested, though, so that wouldn’t be my first choice.

fossilesque ,
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Found this trying to find a book I heard about: https://web.archive.org/web/20240713181424/https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/23/smarter-living/adults-guide-to-social-skills.html

Re: Self regulation: https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Self Compassion (Important Skill): https://web.archive.org/web/20240624215000/https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/25/smarter-living/why-you-procrastinate-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-self-control.html

I know I have more. Let me have a think. :)

fossilesque ,
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This helps break things down: https://goblin.tools/

fossilesque ,
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Only two cookbooks you need, both available on Anna's Archives. Tonnes of other free cookbooks on archive.org too.

The first helps you pair any food in your kitchen and the second shows you how to prepare and cook it.

vzq ,

I smell a robot!

fossilesque ,
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Claeaning:

https://www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/

Will post more. :)

Today ,

There's a community called Cool Guides.

oxjox ,
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I'm curious where this is coming from.

What exactly is it that you're unsure of regarding bathing or eating? Are you questioning the source of your guidance thus far? Have you had no guidance? Are you an AI or alien trying to learn more about humans?

otp ,

You'd be surprised. There are people who don't know how to wash their genitals (both genders). People who don't know how to clean up after pooping, or even how to best sit while pooping. People use cotton swabs to "clean" their ear wax (which is kind of like eating a pudding cup with a baton).

Mighty ,
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I mean you have wikihow but it's not really high-quality all the way through.
There doesn't exist one guide. All of these topics are highly debatable, have different opinions with far different perspectives. Some things you just have to figure out yourself with the help given to you. Means: get as much info as possible, compare, talk to others, reflect on your own experience and expectations.

There is no "one better way" to do these common tasks. And many companies spend an insane amount of money to spread (mis)information on how best to eat, exercise, get to work, clean, dress, wash....
So I don't believe there's "objectively" one way to do anything.
Find your way.

Bougie_Birdie ,
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Usually when I wonder if there's a better way to do something, I end up just searching online. Usually WikiHow can point you in the right direction, especially if it's for like basic human stuff. Since you're looking for a wiki this seems like the obvious choice.

If you're looking at building better habits like eating healthier or building a routine, I'm reading Tiny Habits right now and it's pretty eye-opening. Your mileage may vary with self-help books, but so far the science and exercises are sound.

Today ,

Thank you. I'm going to start reading that today.

breadsmasher ,
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The youtube channel “Dad how do I…?”

https://m.youtube.com/@DadhowdoI

Fake4000 ,

Came to mention this channel exactly.

Zarxrax ,

Here is a good guide:

  1. Figure out one specific thing you need to learn how to do.

  2. Look up a guide for that one thing.

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