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How should I change my polite behavior to be more accommodating?

My parents raised me to always say "yes sir" and "no ma'am", and I automatically say it to service workers and just about anyone with whom I'm not close that I interact with. I noticed recently that I had misgendered a cashier when saying something like "no thank you, ma'am" based on their appearing AFAB, but on a future visit...

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I think they mean "Sie", which later for decapitalised as "sie" for female

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Star really grated at the beginning. Rich girl having rich girl problems with rich boy. There was no tension, nothing.

Then they started introducing dark elements in there - monsters, her family's dark past, the unspoken guilt of those they usurped. It got really good then

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AFI are timeless poets. You could take their songs 100 years back in time and they'd still work.

I, I came here by day
But I left here in darkness
And found you, found you on the way...

If you could take a single character out of a piece of media (book, film, TV show, video game, etc) who would it be?

They would lose any magical powers they may have had in the book, but anything they are, rather than can do, will stay. For example people from the His Dark Materials world would keep their daemons. You can take them out at any time in the story's plot, but for all other people consuming the media, it will be shown that the...

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Boromir. Right before the arrows start flying. We would just sit at a bar drinking after I'd calmed him down, and we'd read how the hobbits got taken by Orcs anyway and that Sam and Frodo are pretty much doing their own thing.

(We would also have the "Seen Been"/ "Shaun Bonn" discussion, time permitting)

Skip ahead to the last book where the King Steward of Gondor sits on the throne, and then I'll pat Boromir encourangingly on the back, and shove him back into the book so he can connect with his dad again.

I also might throw in some AK-47s for that last battle in the last book, but depends how much I've been drinking honesty

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Oh. Well, still Boromir before the arrows. At that point he's basically written out of the story anyway.

I can find him work petitioning the Tolkien estate to include firearms in their final battle, which they will likely refuse because they are dicks. I guess he could go on celebrity panel shows, but I don't think he'd be that funny.

Pulling him out of the book really might do more harm than good. He died with courage. Now he just mysteriously vanished when he was needed the most. Probably the King Steward of Rohan would be suspicious on his son's disappearance, and would reject any plea for aid fr the Fellowship. Might doom the story.

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goddammit I knew that too

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well that's just ridiculous now

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"Yousa wants me dead-dead? Oh pooie!"
proceeds to trip over your furniture and inadvertently set your house on fire

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The police won't just issue a slap on the wrist though, he will be entered onto a database. This could potentially ruin their entire life.

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I think intent needs to be factored in. If the colleague's intent was purely to terrorise then that should be punishable. If their intent was humour, albeit at the expense of OP, I think some leniency should be involved, at least until they understand the gravity of their offence.

We are all ignorant of the sensitivies of others in at least one degree, is my defense here.

Do you practice self care?

Hello. Let's talk about self-care. Who practices self-care regularly? I've been making an absolute effort to practice self-care, and it's definitely improving my mood. I floss, meditate, do qigong, breathwork, etc. Yes, flossing is self-care, take care of yo teefs. What does everyone do for self-care? Bonus question: Where else...

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I eat two massive meals per day, regularly walk stairs but not often, sleep at least until I hear something, go outside begrudgingly, wash my skin with a shower, and brush my beard every other day if I remember

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most people also assume that jelking is the same as jerking

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Also it's the one my parents talk about. They used to go out everyday and pluck food from the ground. Every day.

Fridge changed that overnight. Suddenly people had time to do other things (mostly chat with their friends in cafés)

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It is crazy that. For time immemorial we used to transmit information from our mouths or using hand signals, and receive that information through eyes and ears, all in realtime.

(side thought: how awesome would it be if we had a single organ for both? e.g. communication solely through blinking)

Then suddenly we have this system where someone can code meaning onto a sheet, and we can receive entire contexts from a glance alone, purely at our leisure. Nuts.

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Its crazy that we're now approaching 200 million transistors in a single square millimetre. Boggles the mind.

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its also the reason Blender innovated so much in the last ten years, being the main choice for digital perverts

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I'll jump on this with the equally enjoyable

Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter

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"Now, has everyone brushed up on their Silmarillion beforehand as agreed? Good. Now I'll just roll once for initiative before we start the film."

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outlive your creditors in an unstable land?

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Dear @firefox : Please stop saving images as webp when I drag them out of the browser. Forever stop that. Even if they are webp originally, just give me a setting to auto-convert them to JPEG. When I get a webp file the first thing I have to do is convert it manually if I'm going to do anything with it.

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webp is a great format though...

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jpegxl should be the successor, granted - but that doesn't make webp any less good

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"good product, but delivery driver was rude, 1 star"

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I go to my uncle's house, and ask him "how long have you had <point>?" and if he says, "oh this old thing? I've had it since before you were-" then I ignore it.

if he shrugs, I buy it.

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god I miss Cracked

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Jacob Cellar, but he uses Cosmic IIRC

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Soren Bowie writes for American Dad

Woah, I did not know that!

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How did i react? Got out, shut the closet doors and went to watch tv. It’s a miracle i didn’t torch my whole house

Lmao - reminds me of when I was in my early twenties and couldn't handle my beer. We had a few people around, and the toilet was occupied, so I threw up in a bucket and hid it in a closet and went back to the party. Cue to next morning, "Lads... why is there a bucket of-"

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or he's doing the long con, and waiting till you buy something expensive so that he can disassemble it "out of curiosity" to test your reaction

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My ex's brother released the hand break when he was a kid left alone in the car for 5 minutes. Rolled into the wall of store his parents were buying groceries

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Laptops used to be better built back in my day. You used to open up the case, cradle it out of its straps, pull the analog wires to attenuate the device correctly, apply the friction resin to the input rod, and finally place it underneath your chin and play it.

I don't understand modern laptops these days

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I worked briefly at dominoes. One day I parked my bike a little too close to the others and didn't put the kickstand properly. It tipped over and dominoed five other bikes.

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it sounds like that laptop had it coming, for the sheer neglect and poor upbringing it inflicted

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crystal chandelier... yikes, you did them a favour.

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weird. In my 30s, I think I've gotten better at drinking. I used to hate the taste of beer in my 20s and would often vom after a night out.

Now I'm sampling ale's and wine's in the same night like a right douchey cunt, and loving it

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Downpayment Blues (but yes really)

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Italians and Turks raise some serious eyebrows

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I start my day on 1960s English prog and ska, and end my day on 1970s Italian and Turkish prog and pop. I dunno what's out there

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It genuinely irritates me when I hear sampled songs get passed as new without any credit to the original

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are you telling me you don't remember Dune the videogame?

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The DJ should mention it, would be my solution. I got into Gary Numan's Are Friends Electric after hearing Sugababes fantastic Freak Like Me (arguably better than Numans), but I had to find out that they sampled from him. A quick nod from the radio DJ would have saved time, and would have been respectful of the original

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"change must come from the barrel of a gun"

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If you like that, check out San Remo -- unlike the EVSC, it's less about politics and more about talent, and Italians really know how to get experimental

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they also described the UI bingo that disorients users every release as software devs enact the latest fashion trend in UX paradigms.

read: over the last 20 years, UI's have not converged towards anything, but cycled through design vogues in a manner reminiscent of the fashion industry. Keeping up is exhausting if you're not paying attention.

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visionaries.

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Brother printers haven't "innovated" in years, and produce fully functional printers without software lockout and freemium "features". They just make printers, and don't screw their customers. Brother is the Toyota of printers.

Tesla is the HP of printers. Deviates greatly from a standard model of a printer, locks down standard printer features, and sells them back to the customer as a service.

How do you feel confident in the workplace?

I was a student for many years (5 years of undergrad, 2.5 years of grad school), and I became very comfortable with always being able to look at the syllabus and my grade and know what I needed to do and how well I was performing. Work isn’t like that. Like I think is normal, I get a performance review once a year. I find this...

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Anyone that walks around super confident in their work, usually sucks at their job.

I make it a genuine rule that anyone who has to go out of their way to tell me how great they are, is not someone I am going to believe. Especially if it's the first thing out of their mouth.

If it's mentioned casually after X amount of months of working with them, then I'll stop and take notice

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