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58 years old, ish (Yes, I'm sticking with this lie, because it still remains my only chance for immortality) Autistic and British. Into philosophy and spiritualism and pretty much anything that might explain the meaning of life, up to and including that it might really be 42.
Male, he/him

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PixysJourney , to weirdfolks group
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:bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜

It feels all wrong... The skies are already showing some lighter areas... Normally, we'd be on the way back by now, more lights are on in some homes...

I know....

Breathe.... Just breathe... It's only for about a month...
Ugh....

:blobcat_dizzy:

My silly autism just loved the old routine...

I know that in the new town, we maybe won't be able to find such lovely SniffBook walkies routes... Maybe there are some... We'll know with time and exploring... 😊

But I just always got so calm and relaxed during the SniffBook walkies... I'm gonna miss them... Fingers crossed 🤞🏻 that Herpen will have a good route for us to find and enjoy after all the crazy is done!

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Just adjust for the next few weeks Pixy. You can do this... It will be worth it... You'll have more time in the afternoon to spend with your Friendos 💜 here...

Slowly getting through the week (which is going too fast 😂 Aaah it's mind boggling), enjoying the last walkies, making the most of it.
Just 6 more days and then... Pixy's world will get even more crazy!

:parrot_twin:

Fankoos 🫶🏻 for your support, for your kindness, for your sillyness to make me giggle when I feel bläh... I really appreciate it! :heart_rainbow:

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🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾



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pathfinder ,
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@PixysJourney @weirdfolks
Neither that long before the move nor that long before you can get back into the rhythm that suits you. :bear_hugs:

pathfinder ,
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@PixysJourney @weirdfolks
As a hopeless night owl, I know what you mean. Just remember, it's temporary and will end up with you in a far, far, better place.

JustPassingThrough , to random
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Didn't expect one of my closest friends to tell me he thinks the late-diagnosing of autism thing is pure crap. How do I bounce back from this invalidation? Do I even need to defend myself here? How would you react? I haven't responded yet. Funny how you'd think someone would be understanding but they aren't.

#actuallyautistic

pathfinder ,
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@JustPassingThrough
This is so hard! I'm so sorry. Depending on your relationship and how much you value it, you could try explaining how self-diagnosing yourself as autistic isn't like diagnosing yourself with an actual medical condition. I've hopefully linked a resource gathered by the most excellent @alice that may help you to do this. But, otherwise, or if this doesn't work, it's perhaps time to reconsider the relationship. Negativity like that, is not helpful. It's hard enough coming to terms with realising something like this and dealing with the trauma of it and that resurfaces because of it, without something like this.

https://codeberg.org/alicewatson/asd-self-dx/src/branch/main

pathfinder ,
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@alice @alice_watson @JustPassingThrough
Deserved! :bear_hugs:

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