@RenewedRebecca As near as I can tell, without tagging anyone who seems activated by everything, is a sequence of events like so:
Admin of woem.men went on an "unhinged arc" involving a lot of posts that were not, according to one of the co-admins on tooters, set up with appropriate content warnings.
Said tooters admin moves to domain block????? This is the piece I've only seen second hand.
The tooters admin deletes her account and victor announced closing the instance