@futurebird I have always hated bras and continue to feel forced into wearing them by social expectations. The first time it was some bully girls in middle school locker rooms. Now it's just some sort of ... This is expected as part of professional wear. There's (large) men with at least the same size boobs as me working for the same organization and I bet we'd all be more comfortable if it was part of dressing comfortably rather than dressing gendered.