@futurebird One of the superpowers I have gained as I have got older is not giving a shit anymore about what people think about the way I sound, look and dress. Given the choice though, I'd have preferred this progression to have been the other way around - start that way when I was younger and get more paranoid as I got older. Partly because greater experience means I am now much better placed to cope with the fear and stress of always being a square peg than I was back then.