BeAware , I migrated back already. Basically it was because I was thinking about this community thing and didn't really think it through in terms of moderation and didn't have the moderation skills and manpower to do that type of thing.
I AM however, thinking of making another personal Sharkey instance on beaware.social eventually, just not right now. It also, was a very stressful thing because I am not used to Sharkey on the backend so I got LOTS of help from @ozzy (he got the damn thing running, not me) and I just didn't feel comfortable enough to be able to do all of that learning on a community server and stress other people out about downtimes and such.