RustyBertrand , 
I guess it's time to open an anonymous account so I can ask question without getting banned. I've been the same person since MySpace.
You can really scare people you know. I'm glad there was no Internet when I was learning to grow up.
This much rejection and hate might have bound me to the wrong cause.
People who don't have access to your language bubbles and suddeny find themselves questioning their identity can really get in trouble quickly.
There are kids coming out of cults now, who have no idea what you're talking about, and one wrong word and y'all break them. To smithereens.
I'm trying to find the word for neither gender. Crucified by both. Hating definitions. Hating mirrors.
An angry child realising she won't grow up powerful, bearded and strong. But hating them too, for what they do to women.
Agender, no. Antigender, no, sounds MAGA. Nongender. Is that OK?
If I'm forced to label myself, I wanna do it right.
I lost my uterus, took a unisex name 30 years ago, and take male hormones (health).
Adaptation is my personality, survival, #antifa #BLM, human rights. (I hate definitions of sex because of my upbringing #cult )
But I guess this is a new world and I have to choose.