I was that ex before I broke that cycle for myself. This anon is right. Contacting your exes who are probably not in the best place is only enabling them not to heal.
Thanks for the confidence boost! I was coming to reply that I "was weak" for not replying like how greentext did, but your comment was at the top and revitalized me!
Practically the same situation except I was busy/moved on so I looked at the text and just put my phone back in my pocket.
One time I saw my ex was walking down the street I was walking up, so I crossed the street to avoid them. Then they crossed the street, so I just walked back across
one time me and my gf walked right past my ex in a restaurant and didnt even notice because we were so hungry. only knew because my friend said "oh its that bitch" in my ear
