Related: I finished reading https://genderdysphoria.fyi a while back, and I feel like it helped me not only to understand my trans friends better, but also myself.
Note: Reposting because I don't think kindness ever stops being relevant.
Also, thanks for all the boosting going on! I hope someone sees this and has a slightly better day because of it! :ablobcatheart:
What is gained by identifying ourselves and each other within the restrictions of gender norms? Why try to find what is "masculine", "feminine", how do I measure up, become that ideal?
We are each an individual with our own idiosyncracities, talents, disabilities, attractions, desires, ways of being.
Isn't our best life goal to learn, to be
the person we are most happy being?