No, you are arguing a straw man, I'm saying we can't expect to solve this for free, or close to it.
Russia is trying to redefine European borders by waging war against a peaceful neighbor, no way we should silently stand by and accept that, because if you don't oppose a bully, the bullying will get worse.
Also the increased help to Ukraine is NOT pro war, but an attempt to end the war on Ukraines terms and not Russia, who is the aggressor, and the ONLY de facto pro war country in this situation. Russia can end this war NOW, bu just going home!!
You are parroting Russian propaganda, whether you know it or not.