BeAware , 
I kinda hate the fact that the average user has basically no power here.
If you're not technology knowledgeable, you're basically beholden to instance admins just as you are on Corporate Social Media.
It's even worse when everyone starts signing up at only one or two instances, giving them the power to basically control Fedi.
That is the current situation with .social
If .social doesn't think your opinions matter, you'll be banned with no recourse.
Create your own instances. It's the only way to take the power back in Fediverse.