Again, not familiar enough with what a war is. It's not like a video game portrayal of war where the civilians are outlined with a different colour than the combatants. Sure it could be a little closer to that if all combatants wore uniforms, but sometimes one side in a war fights dirty and doesn't wear uniforms and actively tries to blend in with the civilians.
In any case in every war there are civilian causalities. Unlike video games there's no option to make the bullets only damage enemies. The reality is you have a bunch of scared teenagers firing live bullets that can kill they enemy, friendly soldiers, and civilians.
Never hear the phrase "war is hell"? You think people were just joshing you about that? Now that you see that war isn't how it's portrayed in movies and video games you need to call it something else so you can continue to think war is a fun thing?