You have assembled a picture in your mind. I'm not saying any of what you are saying doesn't happen, because I am sure that it does. It's a big country and lots of shit happens (and in some particular departments it happens way way more often than it should, yes.)
But I am very confident that I can find data that part of your picture, at least, is not what's accurate to what's going on in the country as a whole. I'm not trying to argue with you or bother you about it if you're just committed to your way. But if you're open to talk back and forth about it and look at sources, that's something I'm open to do; I'll do the same for anything that you want to show me or anything it turns out I am wrong about on my side.