Idk how you think I'm wrong for thinking that there's something messed up about this. My daughter is 12. This man is mid thirties maybe 40. He has spent decades being a man. I think it's totally unfair that my daughter has to change in the same room as him. It makes her uncomfortable, do her feelings not matter? She has seen his penis once already and told me about it. This has been a thing for months with us. If we know he's there we make sure he isn't in the changeroom when my daughter goes in. But sometimes he goes in after she's already in there and I can't do anything to stop it. I have never brought this to the attention of the ymca because I understand we're a progressive society here in Canada and he has rights too. But you can't say it's totally insane of me to think that this whole situation is kinda strange. I'm not comfortable with my 12 year old daughter seeing a adult mans penis in a chnageroom sorry. That's why we have gendered changerooms.