You did not say that she should get raped. That's correct. You misread my text, if that's what you understood. You are just defending people, who say that she should get raped. Isn't much better imo.
However, I replied to that in the other comment. Don't think it's funny. And regarding the one you're defending, it's not clear to me whether that's truly a "joke" given the context of the preceding text. Let's continue that there.
Edit: BTW, if you think both are jokes, then why are you getting so upset about it, that you say: "if I [...] had to chose between spending time with someone who posts shit like this and a bear in both cases Id probably run away screaming"?