Existential Despair ( lemmy.world )
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/12600510
higgsboshark
The thing about knitting is it's much harder to fear the existential futility of all
your actions while you're doing it
LIke ok, sure, sometimes it's hard to believe you've made any positive impact
on the wortd. But It's pretty easy to believe you've made a sock. Look at it.
There it is. Put it on, now your foot's warm
Checkmate, nihilism.cheskamouse
This is a powerful positive message.pluckyredhead
I'm literally reading a book right now (Burnout by Emily and Amelia Nagoski)
that says this is scientiically sound.There have been studies done on rats and dogs where they develop learned
helplessness in the animals by giving them impossible tasks. Eventually the
animals stop trying, even when the task stops being impossible. (.e. put a rat in
a maze with cheese it can't get to until it develops learned helplessness, then
put the cheese somewhere it can get to it and it won't even try ) But once they
show the animals they CAN do something - i.e. physicaly moving the rat to the
cheese-the learned helplessness goes away.No one can move you to your cheese for you, but the book says DOING
something - which they define as "anything that isn't nothing" can help. Make a
food. Work in the garden. Clean a thing Do a favor for a fiend. Call your
elected officials.Knit a sock.
If you feel overwhelmed by existential despair, do something. It doesn't have to
be big It just has to be anything that isn't nothing.
