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lots of ADHD, likes knitting, cooking, nerdy stuff, into history and archeology

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Maybe we need to make some space to have conversations about the way that rigid gender expectations can hurt people. I'm not talking about trans people, exclusively (in fact the trans people I know are among the most sophisticated when it comes to processing these kinds of events and emotions)

No, where I see a lot of unprocessed trauma flailing around putting everyone in a bad way is from cis people who have unexamined psychological harm due to their failure to conform to some gender norm. 1/

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@futurebird when I was a child I had some rather weird associations which gender did which. Probably this was partly because of me being ND and not understanding things. For example I believed women always drank their coffee without sugar while men used sugar (sample size my parents and a handful other adults).

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