Are you just yelling out random fallacies until you find one that comes close to describing my argument? I remember when I used to think that's how debating works, damn high school was wild.
I'm not saying to forgive people who use Christianity as an excuse to bully others, I'm saying not to blame the faith itself for the actions of jackasses, and to recognize that by calling for the complete extermination of the faith and everyone involved in it, you're acting like a literal Nazi.
I'm not telling marginalized people that their pain doesn't matter, I'm telling them that hatred will not heal their wounds and in fact make them worse. I know because I used to blame the existence of religion for all that was wrong in the world, but then I grew up and realized it's not so simple.