dgerard OP Mod , 2 months ago my god, you missed out on that? here is way too much background reading! commenter on Shtetl-Optimized talks about the rapey "nice guys" she suffered at college Scott Aa takes this as a brutal personal attack on him Laurie Penny tries to be nice about it Amanda Marcotte? not so nice about it Scott Alexander weighs in with one zillion words, unreadable, so relentlessly awful that Scott demands readers not form an opinion of him based on a thousands of words essay he worked hard on and chose to publish Elizabeth Sandifer with the correct and readable opinion of this bilge (also long, but worth it)
my god, you missed out on that?
here is way too much background reading!