:( poor turtle orphling. I don't agree that the secret to a long life is a burden free life, but that the secret to a long life is strength that comes from meeting and resolving the challenges that get thrown at you. It's not the easy things but the hard things that give you scars that make you stronger.
Experimenting with a signature containing some quotes from moderators I have received. See my profile background for the groomer bit. It’s either true or it’s something that they shouldn’t be making light of by pretending to be one. Not sure how else to raise these issues.