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ilex OP , 3 months ago (edited 3 months ago)

Who admits to intentional harassment? How do you test for that? Especially when being questioned by a third party.

How many strikes?

Losing other members out of fear is a concern on our minds. How many women would stay after we enact a 'boys will be boys' policy? Letting them know that men can say whatever to them as long as they say it was just a prank afterwards.

E: 4. When it isn't sexual, and it's someone saying "fucking n--gers, we don't like your kind around here" should we allow the instigator the benefit of the doubt that it's just a prank?

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