There was one where women shared stories of them getting raped, because they found this to be arousing. Most of the time, they were intentionally putting themselves in situations where they expected the risks of getting raped to be higher.
Examples:
Going to the bar showing a lot of skin, flirting, and drinking too much, or pretending to be drunk.
Going to a man's home, and pretending to fall asleep, with a skirt.
Showing off her naked body next to a busy highway.
I think they even had insider jargon.
Can't find it anymore, maybe it was closed. It's been a long while I've even went on Reddit at all.