None of those things necessarily need to be true, especially not
the idea of bad opinion = ugly, good opinion = beautiful is shitty and flirts with white supremacy
The shouting crying soyjak for depicting opinions of people who continue to hold stupid opinions despite all evidence to the contrary fits fairly well, and if you don't like the beauty standards set by the default chad, there's nothing stopping you from substituting your own, or just using any calm, levelheaded character in its place.